Think of it this way. A lot of men who love BDSM are CEO's etc. that are always in control. Sometimes some of us black men like to feel used. It's no different than white men only seeing us as a BBC.
I have seen that a lot on here, some black guys want to role play and be talked to like that. Kinda seems like bondage bdsm where people want to be hurt, it gets them off. Weird world.