Porby

If you have created 'named folders' within your Favourites, be aware that XH have reset them to only be visible to the user! To change this:
Go to 'Favourites'
Select a folder (now called a Playlist)
On the right above the the video thumbnails, select 'Edit'
Change to 'All Users' (or 'Friends only' if you prefer, but this will discourage prospective Friends)
This has to be done for each folder/playlist, as there is no 'Apply to All' option, though I have requested one!

PLEASE NOTE:
I am now unlikely to accept Friend Requests from those whose Favourites are not at least in part sorted into folders; having 1k+ Favourites with no sort of classifications - especially if half of them are marked as deleted - may be perfectly fine for you, but is a pain for others in the XH community. Exceptions will be made, especially if you have plenty of your own videos on your profile. EDIT: If you haven't unlocked your Favourites (see above), the same will apply!

I am also concerned about the increase of videos showing men with their hands around the ladies' necks. Even if it is done consentingly and as a playful simulation, I think it normalises what is an unacceptably violent and disrespectful attitude. Therefore FRs will be refused if your profile shows this sort of thing.

I don't expect the above to worry anyone, nor even change anyone's behaviour - but they are my rules to myself, and may go some way to explain why your FR was turned down.

I thank you. Now back to our scheduled programme.....

I consider myself a normal chap with a very open minded approach to sexuality. I truly believe that sexiness is less a function of looks, size or colour, but purely a function of attitude....

Having said that, I'll admit to enjoying seeing a mature ladies with curves making love with an equally 'real' gentleman! I also feel that a lady looks at her best on knees and elbows, being administered to from behind by a well built partner. Many years ago, I knew a couple in their late 50s who enjoyed this too, and I had the opportunity to be cameraman for them, and would love to repeat the experience.

I've recently realised that its now been well over 20 years since I last felt a ladies tongue or lips around my cock, and the same length of time since I ran my tongue over a quivering clitoris. As a lover of oral, this is quite difficult to live with! It may also explain why I enjoy watching amateur bj vids.

Still, I'm enjoying myself on xHamster, and hope you do too :-)))) I'm quite happy to converse with like minded people or couples, as I think that sex is very enjoyable whether you are doing it, watching it, or talking about it. I have my own likes and dislikes, but I do think that anything that can legally be done by consenting adults in private is fine if it works for those involved. So drop us a line if you like - but please say *something*.... just 'Hi there' will be ignored, and if you struggle to string a sentence together of any substance the conversation will be short. Likewise friend requests from those with no profile content at all will be declined. So at least say a bit about yourself and have some Favourites please people!!! T

IMPORTANT:WARNING: Sydney University and all other institutions using this or any Adult Friend Finder site / Xhamster or its associated sites for projects - You do NOT have permission from me to use any of my profile or pictures in any form or forum both current and future. If you have or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action.The obligatory disclaimer: WARNING: all individuals and/or institutions, including local, state, federal, and international law enforcement agencies using this or any Adult Friend Finder site / XHamster or its associated sites for projects and/or investigations. - You do not have my permission to use any of my profile information, pictures, videos, blogs, or stories in any form or forum both current and future. If you have, or do, it will be considered a violation of my privacy and will be subject to legal action. (I suggest the rest of you post this notice)